(Tw: rape) For another thing, do you really want to be the guy who exists in the so-called “gray” areas of this? Do you really want to end up trying out those arguments in a courtroom or police interrogation room someday? Do you really want to be the guy who pressures reluctant people into having sex? Do you really want to be someone who gets people drunk so they’ll have sex with you, or who tries to find the drunkest and most vulnerable freshman at the party and take advantage of her while she’s on the verge of passing out? Do you want to be someone who is never fully sure that your partner is into what’s happening because you’re afraid that if you ask her she’ll say no? Is it worth the risks of poor decision making around sexual health and pregnancy risk, or the fear that maybe you hurt and coerced someone and did them permanent emotional damage? Don’t be that guy.

Captain Awkward: Let’s crowdsource some feminist sex ed for frat guys. (via slutwalkseattle)

Click through. This entire post is full of a lot of win.

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